have shown that other people may find you more attractive than you actually see
yourself. If you think you’re not attractive, that may not necessarily be true
in other’s eyes. Now that you have one less excuse to avoid the person you
like, here are some ways for you to get her to like you.
1. It starts with you
everything when it comes to attracting another person, but it all lies on how
you carry yourself. So before anything, take measures to improve how you look
and how you act.
clothes, shave, take a shower, and etc.; grooming yourself should be the first
step to looking and feeling more attractive. Wear clothes that you’re
comfortable in whilst making you look clean and presentable. If you want to try
sporting a different fashion style, try asking others, preferably other girls
whom you know and trust.
Improve your posture
Maintaining a good posture makes you look more confident and influential. Let’s face it, no matter what others say, confidence is a major criterion in a girl’s attraction list. In addition to looking more confident, having good posture allows you to speak clearly because your breathing (hence also your voice) gets better when you stand up straight.
Practice your speaking
Most of us don’t
notice that we speak a bit too quickly. When you speak fast, you’re perceived
as someone who is nervous and less confident. For practice, try to read a poem
slower than usual, excruciatingly slow. This will sound very strange,
but it serves as a good exercise.
2. Smiling and eye contact
You can’t deny
that a smiling person can look very attractive. To put it simply, smile and do
it often! But don’t do this without any reason to, of course. You don’t want to
look like a creep. Also, practice holding eye contact. Being able to do so
shows your interest and gives an air of intimacy.
3. Having a sense of humor
Cracking jokes, especially if timed right, can award you much of a girl’s attention. Showing a sense of humor communicates that you have the ability make a girl happy. But, remember not to joke around too much, or do it inappropriately. It only gives off the idea that you’re not able to take things seriously. Imagine how embarrassing it would be to joke about the Merlion without any context.
4. Touch (done with consent)
Touching is also
an important part of attraction. You won’t get anywhere if you only talk and
bob your head all the time. If for example, you and the girl are beginning to
know each other better, don’t hesitate to at least touch her arm lightly. Most
girls also, once their comfortable with you, will start to hug you. Whether
this means anything romantic or not, just go do it.